How I got fired four times and still made it to The White House.

In the ad biz there’s a saying that you can’t be very good if you haven’t been fired. I guess that makes me very, very, very, very good.

It’s true that ad people get canned more than most. It’s an industry thing. Nevertheless, four times is kind of a lot and each time, for me, was a painful experience casting doubts about my talent and future. Little did I realize that those firings were directing on a course that would ultimately lead to the co-founding an award-winning Madison Avenue agency and a White House honor.

I didn’t realize it because after firing number three things were not looking rosey. No one, and I mean no one, would talk to me. Even the headhunters wouldn’t return my calls. Being unable to get any interviews with the ad agencies I knew, I began going through the phonebook calling all those I didn’t. One day I made 106 calls and got 104 rejections.

One of those 106 calls got me a meeting with an agency exec who told me that he was “very impressed” with my work and wanted to stay in touch. Actually, that positive reaction was not an uncommon one when I was lucky enough to get people to actually see my work. However, I’d been around long enough to be wary of flattering words and promises to “call when something comes up.” So, when the following weeks turned into months and the call never came I wasn’t surprised.

When my phone rang two years later and it was that same guy calling about a possible project, I was surprised. That call led to a meeting, which led to a collaboration, which resulted in some of the best, most exciting work I’d ever done. Up to that point my career had been a struggle to keep a job. After a few short months of this new collaboration I found myself an integral part of one of the most talked about ad campaigns in the country, for a hot new footwear designer named Kenneth Cole. Awards and press soon followed. So did a smooth-talking, dark-suited business guy who was convinced that he and I had to team up to start the next great NY ad agency. Intrigued, but not convinced, I moved ahead slowly with the new collaboration. Within a year we had a small agency that was winning clients, awards and press.

It was during this time that I, independently, created one of my best ads ever – an anti-child abuse ad that got my new partner very excited. Determined to find an organization to run it we managed to get a meeting with people from the National Committee for the Prevention of Child Abuse in Chicago who just happened to be planning a visit to New York. It was a lucky break since, without a face-to-face meeting, our chances of selling our ad were slim to none. When the big moment came and we revealed our great ad the NCPCA execs couldn’t have been less excited. “Off strategy and too controversial” they said. But, they liked our smarts, talent, and chutzpah enough to offer us us a great project: a national TV campaign co-sponsored by the NBA. I’m proud to say that the campaign that we eventually created contributed to a 57% increase in hotline calls. It also got us some major ad awards and national press.

It was shortly thereafter this great experience that I received a curious envelope with the words, THE WHITE HOUSE as the return address. Considering the many creative job seekers who were now vying for my attention as a potential employer, I assumed it was yet another gimmicky attempt to stand out. When I opened the envelope I quickly realized that I was wrong. I was holding an official White House invitation for a gala honoring those select few whose public service contributions had “made a difference.” I was awestruck. And, three weeks later, I was being escorted through the portraited halls of The White House as an honored guest. It’s an experience I’ll never forget. It’s also a story I don’t mind sharing. Because if someone had told me that after being fired four times I’d have my own award-winning NY ad agency and be honored at The White House, I’d have said they were nuts.

I’ve heard it said that hard things get put in our way, not to stop us, but to call out our courage and strength. At one time or another everyone faces such times when they must focus on the tough road ahead, not knowing if they will succeed, but knowing that they must try. I hope my story helps you do that.

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